I Know The Feeling
Self-worth rock bottom. It’s a deep hole to crawl out of! Mine was being dumped by my cheating boyfriend and literally crawling across the floor begging him not to leave me! Followed by a self esteem shame spiral. (Sad but true).
Maybe this is familiar? Drinking too much, casual sex that leaves you feeling lonely and insecure, working for people or companies that feel more like prison than work, friends who only support you when it’s convenient for them or good ones you don’t ask for help because you don’t want to seem weak. Walking around pretending that you’ve got your shit together but feeling like an imposter. That hole is dark, and slippery, and complicated. You might feel like you’ll never make it out alive. I’m here to say you can and you WILL.
How do I know? I did! After all the ups and downs I managed to pull myself out of the hole (with a LOT of help from my team) and I started a journey of self love and self worth. I moved to Australia and traveled SE Asia and India and discovered more of who I really was inside. I learned that when I was THAT GIRL and less of who I thought I SHOULD be that people were drawn to me! I made REAL connections with people, I found real joy and value in my work and in a VERY roundabout way I was led back to Canada and to my true passion: HELPING YOU!
I’m ridiculously curious and LOVE everything about people and what makes them tick. The words I love hearing most are: “I’ve never told anyone this before” it means that you trust me to be your confidante, and that we are about to get to the juicy stuff! It also means that you’re ready to be more of who you are and that makes my heart sing! You’ve had years to build up self doubt, shame, and guilt over what your life should look like, and it’s all bullshit! I believe that we are all exceptional. Most of us have simply forgotten. I believe we are all exactly where we should be right now. Your entire life has led you to this moment and it has been perfect. You are here, you are ready and you don’t have to move halfway around the world to find that missing piece. (Unless you want to of course!)
I’m wildly intuitive which means I already see the light in you (even if it’s just a flicker). I will help you navigate adulting so you can get closer to where you want to be. I believe there’s no reward without the risk, I believe you are capable and able to do this! I’m direct. I won’t do the work for you or hold your hand but I will ALWAYS have your back. You are worthy of love and belonging and I want you to know that in your CORE! I won’t give you the answers but I WILL give you some badass perspective, tips, and tools. Believe it or not it’s actually FUN!
